βWhat did your childhood home smell like in the morning?β
Prompt Decks
Questions worth asking.
Open a deck. Read one out loud at dinner, on the porch, on the phone. Short conversations are the best ones.
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Childhood
Gentle openers β perfect for a quiet afternoon.
βWho was the first friend you ever made? What did you do together?β
βWhat was your favorite hiding place as a kid?β
βWhat song takes you back the fastest?β
βWhat's a sound from your childhood you wish you could hear again?β
βWhat did you want to be when you grew up β and what did you actually become?β
βWhat scared you, and who made it less scary?β
βWhat was the worst thing you got in trouble for?β
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Family Traditions
Small rituals that quietly held everything together.
βWhat did your family always do on Sunday?β
βWas there a meal that meant βhomeβ?β
βWhat holiday memory stayed with you the most?β
βWhat's a tradition you hope we keep?β
βWhat's a tradition you hope we let go?β
βWho hosted? Who cleaned up? Who told the stories?β
βWas there a song or saying that opened every gathering?β
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Love & Marriage
Where the story really begins.
βHow did you know it was real?β
βWhat's something small they did that you still think about?β
βWhat was your first home together like?β
βWhat's the hardest thing you got through together?β
βWhat's the funniest fight you ever had?β
βWhat advice would you give a young couple today?β
βWhat's the last thing you'd want them to remember about you?β
Deck
Hard Times
Move slowly. Listen more than you ask.
βWhat's something hard you survived that you don't talk about often?β
βWho showed up for you when it mattered?β
βWhat did you learn about yourself in that season?β
βWhat got you through the worst week?β
βIs there anyone you wish you'd thanked at the time?β
βWhat would you say to your younger self in that moment?β
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Wisdom for Us
The lessons you most want us to carry forward.
βWhat's one thing you wish someone had told you at twenty?β
βWhat do you want your grandchildren to know about you?β
βWhat's been worth it? What hasn't?β
βIf you could leave us one sentence, what would it be?β
βWhat do you forgive yourself for now that you didn't then?β
βWhat do you still want to learn?β
Deck
Ask Today
One small question for your next visit.
βWhat was your favorite age?β
βTell me about your first job.β
βWho made you laugh the most?β
βWhat food reminds you of your mother?β
βWhat did you wear on a really good day?β
βWhat's a smell you'd bottle if you could?β
βWho was the kindest stranger you ever met?β
βWhat did the kitchen sound like at your house growing up?β